With a busy schedule and a house full of children, it can be a real challenge to spend one on one time with each child. However tricky the logistics may seem, when the effort is made, it is so rewarding. Last night, just one daughter wanted to swim and was very pleased to have 100% of my attention. (And 100% of the pool!) She felt so special and happy, and it made me remember that having time with a parent, not sharing the spotlight, is a wonderful thing.